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Gay Marriages. Do you encourage them?

Discussion in 'Debate' started by RedMurdoch, Aug 1, 2012.

    RedMurdoch Well-Known Member

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    i'm at my aunt's plcae for the summer and her new husband is a high school teacher. he said the main reason to discourage gay mariage is because it causes aids. I think his reason is stupid. what do you think?
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    Aids? Seriously? v.v

    Well, I don't support them, because I really just don't want to see them around me, but that's my only reason to be negative about them.
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    redbl0odx Pirate King

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    I think that is the most ignorant reason ever. It is not like gay/lesbians are the only people who get aids. You are right in thinking his reasoning is stupid. Honestly there is no good reason to discourage gay marriage. Do a little bit a research..(if you have not done this already...) but normally the people who have a big issue with homosexuality in general, are religious fundamentalists.

    What do I mean by that?

    People who automatically think they are so much better than everybody else, just because they are part of one religion. (christians are especially terrible with this, not all, but most.) They think that anything that even almost goes against their religion, is evil, and you will burn in hell for it, and they feel inclined to tell everybody this, and rub it in their face till they either, change their behavior, or punch the dumbass in the face.

    Those are normally people who have major issues with homosexuals...either that, or they are just freaking stupid.

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    i read about homos. it's actually genetics so i think people should be open about it. talk about humans rights!

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    His reason is retarded... But I don't really support them either. I'm not against them, but I'm not a huge fan of gays... I'm not against them if they're quiet about it, but if they're super open in public I'm not a fan. However I do believe that there is no reason gay marriages shouldn't be allowed. Marriage is up to the government, not religion. If a government doesn't allowed gay/lesbian couples to get married, then they are denying citizens rights

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    You should of made this a pool.

    I cannot answer this question as my toughts are scrambled about this.

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    no, im patrial religous and the main reason "fake gays" want marriage in my opinon is to break with relgious rules i belive if ur actually gay or if u no a real gay person its not gonna be as big of a deal aslong as u find somone to love <3

    that aids stuff is bulls***
    btw its true ur born with genes if ur gay or if ur not but since the media and all celbes talk bout it many ppl fake being gay for attention which is very annyng and just plain stupid
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    its quoted in the bible marriage was ment for people to mate if you do not want to mate do not get married but that doesnt mean u cant love somone of the same gender its mainly to challenge religon in my opionon
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    and btw i was raisded bya very anti gay communitiy b4 i moved so this stuff is drilled in my head but some is true D:

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    I don't encourage them but I don't discourage them. I'm neutral, if it happens I'll support.

    red1eagle The GMS God

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    Guess what? The government isn't the pope, religion should have nothing to do with what the government decides. If they don't get gays get married they are DENYING CITIZENS THEIR RIGHTS
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    But the major thing is, actually... it is about human rights, about EQUAL RIGHTS. There is no valid reason for gays, not to be able to get married. There just isnt. The only reasons people come up with, are either religion related, or their own bigotry infected minds being stupid.

    By the way, it also shouldn't matter if they are faking it or no.

    Also I know we don't follow this anymore in the states, actually I believe we never have but

    SEPPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE. As in, religious rules, that try to push Gays/Lesbians away... Church should have NO influence on laws. The government has absolutely NO right to tell you, who you can marry, and who you cannot.

    One last thing, if I was legitametly gay, and I found that one special guy for me...I would be insulted, if I were not allowed to marry him. Just because, we can't mate properly, does not mean we should not be able to wed.
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    Do I encourage it? No.
    Do I dislike it enough to want it abolished? No.

    It's a trippy topic I don't like to cross into. I have no true opinion, but I do believe that it's strange. That's the most I'll be able to truthfully say on the matter.
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    I recently read about this actually. There was a recent research that successfully proved that the existence of homosexuals are due to genetics. Many think that it's a trend to follow and such but it isn't. Gay couples have raised their adopted kids and they turned out straight. Well religion do stand in the way, but it is human's rights - according to ECH article 8 and 10. lol And they shouldn't be discriminated because it's what that is normal to them. And your aunt's husband saying it should be discourage because of Aids is the stupidest reason ever. Stating that is like saying, human should be exterminated because they are the cause of so many types of crimes and other immoral stuffs in the world.
    The point is, I'd support them, but not necessarily encourage them.
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    Religious, way, liberal way, noes yeses...

    I'm sorry to say, but it has not been proven that homosexual identity was purely a question of genetics. There might be other, very strong contributing factors, such as early childhood sexual environment, childhood and teenage influences of immediate and broader reference groups. In this sense the only real "hazard" is a gay couple's "model role" on adopted son.
    However, this influence has not been verified either, since - as the cookie suggests - there is evidence to the contrary.

    The wise thing - from a strictly statistical (and not not catholic or the equally limited liberal) viewpoint - would be to let it go, and see how it goes. Collect data, get smarter with time and input, do what shall be done.

    Until then? Let's nor succumb to fear. Not every homosexual has aids. Those who fear them enough to hate them for such a thing should be helped to let go of their fears and live a healthy, positive and balanced spiritual life.
    Equally, perhaps homosexuals could be helped to come to terms with their own feelings and sexual attitude. I think the typical "disgusting, pushy transvestite" happens when someone starts rebelling as an answer to inner confusion.
    But then again... helping everyone to unfold and prosper spiritually would be the religious way... wouldn't it?
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